• Interrupt: Got a dog who thinks “No!” is just a suggestion? That may be because when we say No! We are usually picturing the very thing we don NOT want to happen.  Use a consistent sound or action to get their attention—think of it as the canine equivalent of “stop what you are doing and listen” Then, picture what you DO want to happen and calmly tell your dog to stop the specific  behavior and immediately show them what you DO want. Channel your inner doggy life coach.
  • Redirect: Be specific! Dogs love clarity almost as much as they love bacon. Offer specific praise. Instead of "Good!" say  “Good sit!”, specific correction ("Thanks for warning me. Stop barking at the mailman. Be quiet please.”), and specific requests (“Drop the shoe, Bring me the ball, ).
  • Reward: Praise, treats, and the occasional interpretive dance of joy. These create confidence in your dog and, let’s be honest, in you too. Nothing says success like a wagging tail and a slobbery grin. Research has shown that reward is far more effective than punishment.  And guess what? it feels better for BOTH of you. 
  • Calm: Use calming signals, gentle stroking, TTouch, or a soothing voice. Create the energy you want your dog to have—think Zen master, not caffeine-fueled squirrel. Dogs are masterful mirrors; if you’re calm, chances are they will be too (eventually). 
  • Get Help:  If these tips aren't helping, call a professional.  These days, many pet coaches are well educated themselves and can help you incorporate these and other gentle, compassionate and effective training strategies. Penny can help you through online meetings, videos and remote animal communication sessions.